The ideal relationship for me is when each of us is awesome on our own, but together we are the bomb! I want us to be able to support each other in any endeavor: he, for example, tolerates my stories about teen psychology, and I his hobbies, even if it's... collecting wine corks. The main thing is that it was easy and fun together.
So, of course, it's important that everyone maintains the other's personal boundaries. I'm always in favor of each of us having our own space where we can be alone with ourselves and our thoughts. In general, the ideal relationship for me is a balance between independence and unity, support and fun
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